Attitudes of children that break a mother There are things children do that break a mother's heart... things a mother never claims, but break her heart in silence, because a mother doesn't expect money, or expensive gifts, all she wants is to feel like a part of your life. She wants you to call her from time to time, tell her how you are, hug her for no reason, but there are attitudes that hurt her more than you can imagine.
It hurts when you raise your voice... that “not now”, that “i told you already”, that dry tone that sounds like a door closing. And to think that the same woman spent sleepless nights just to get your fever down as a child.
A mother can stand the tiredness... but what weighs her the most is feeling that you don't need her anymore. It hurts when she calls you and you don't answer, when you read her message but you never reply, when days or weeks go by and you don’t even know if she's okay. She pretends nothing's wrong... but inside the silence squeezes his heart.
It also hurts when she feels that you no longer have time to visit her, when she notices that her presence interferes, when she realizes that you only look for her when you need something. A mother can give everything for her children... but it also hurts her to realize that her children don't have time for her anymore.
And there's something else that hurts her deeply: when children are ashamed of their advice, when they say "Mom, you don't understand", not realizing that behind her every word there are years of falls, mistakes and struggles that she lived just to see you get ahead.
One day you're gonna call your mother... and that phone won't ring anymore... One day you're gonna miss her voice saying, "take care son." And that smell of home-cooked food will only live in your memories.
So if you still have your mother alive, hug her today, call her today, tell her you love her today.. because a mother doesn't need grand gifts... you just need to know that all the love he gave you is still alive inside you.
And tell me something sincerely... How long has it been since you hugged your mom?
A mother can stand the tiredness... but what weighs her the most is feeling that you don't need her anymore. It hurts when she calls you and you don't answer, when you read her message but you never reply, when days or weeks go by and you don’t even know if she's okay. She pretends nothing's wrong... but inside the silence squeezes his heart.
It also hurts when she feels that you no longer have time to visit her, when she notices that her presence interferes, when she realizes that you only look for her when you need something. A mother can give everything for her children... but it also hurts her to realize that her children don't have time for her anymore.
And there's something else that hurts her deeply: when children are ashamed of their advice, when they say "Mom, you don't understand", not realizing that behind her every word there are years of falls, mistakes and struggles that she lived just to see you get ahead.
One day you're gonna call your mother... and that phone won't ring anymore... One day you're gonna miss her voice saying, "take care son." And that smell of home-cooked food will only live in your memories.
So if you still have your mother alive, hug her today, call her today, tell her you love her today.. because a mother doesn't need grand gifts... you just need to know that all the love he gave you is still alive inside you.
And tell me something sincerely... How long has it been since you hugged your mom?
