If someone isn’t capable of showing any empathy, compassion, or remorse for the pain, suffering, or destruction that their presence has brought into your life, please understand that you are not dealing with a normal or healthy person. You’re dealing with someone who doesn’t care about the negative impact that they have on other people. That is not normal behaviour!
Because people who care about you care about the impact that they have on your life.
They care about the impact of their actions and behaviours on you.
So stop trying to get someone to see your pain if they don't care to see it, because if they genuinely cared about how you felt, you’d know about it already.
You wouldn’t have been left wondering if they’re ever going to get it, if they were ever going to see you and actually understand the pain they’ve caused you.
They wouldn't have let you sit there wondering if they're ever going to finally open their heart and use their heart to listen instead of using their ego to deflect from the damage they’ve caused.
If someone has walked away from you without caring about the pain they’ve caused you, let them go and please stop holding onto the hope that they will one day suddenly realise; because the truth is they’ll never understand the damage they’ve caused.
Because when they chose to walk away instead of staying and being accountable, they showed you in the cruelest of ways that they never cared about the impact of their behaviours on you, and that they also never cared about you.
And while you have to now try and heal in silence and in solitude, they somehow manage to sleep peacefully at night and move on knowing that they left you in pain.
Please don’t think that the way they’ve decided to treat you is somehow your fault, because it is not your fault.
You are dealing with someone who is devoid of basic human decency, and they've just finally revealed who they really were all along.
Who they've decided to be and the way they’ve chosen to handle things has nothing to do with you; it was there long before you came along!
So let them go, don’t chase them, don’t try and explain to them how you feel again, don’t try and convince them to see your pain or your worth, just let them go because you deserve better!
Accept who they’ve presented themselves to be, and allow yourself the time, the self-respect, and the grace to leave them where they are, to heal, and to move on from them permanently.
They've just shown you that they were never worth the pain, and as such they're not worthy of anymore of your time and energy.
Let who they've chosen to be, be all the closure that you need.
You don't need any further closure, you just need to be done with them!
~ Mark Smith
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© The Super Powered Mind
They care about the impact of their actions and behaviours on you.
So stop trying to get someone to see your pain if they don't care to see it, because if they genuinely cared about how you felt, you’d know about it already.
You wouldn’t have been left wondering if they’re ever going to get it, if they were ever going to see you and actually understand the pain they’ve caused you.
They wouldn't have let you sit there wondering if they're ever going to finally open their heart and use their heart to listen instead of using their ego to deflect from the damage they’ve caused.
If someone has walked away from you without caring about the pain they’ve caused you, let them go and please stop holding onto the hope that they will one day suddenly realise; because the truth is they’ll never understand the damage they’ve caused.
Because when they chose to walk away instead of staying and being accountable, they showed you in the cruelest of ways that they never cared about the impact of their behaviours on you, and that they also never cared about you.
And while you have to now try and heal in silence and in solitude, they somehow manage to sleep peacefully at night and move on knowing that they left you in pain.
Please don’t think that the way they’ve decided to treat you is somehow your fault, because it is not your fault.
You are dealing with someone who is devoid of basic human decency, and they've just finally revealed who they really were all along.
Who they've decided to be and the way they’ve chosen to handle things has nothing to do with you; it was there long before you came along!
So let them go, don’t chase them, don’t try and explain to them how you feel again, don’t try and convince them to see your pain or your worth, just let them go because you deserve better!
Accept who they’ve presented themselves to be, and allow yourself the time, the self-respect, and the grace to leave them where they are, to heal, and to move on from them permanently.
They've just shown you that they were never worth the pain, and as such they're not worthy of anymore of your time and energy.
Let who they've chosen to be, be all the closure that you need.
You don't need any further closure, you just need to be done with them!
~ Mark Smith
.
© The Super Powered Mind
