They say marriage is about finding someone to walk through hard things with. I didn’t fully understand that… until infertility.
Because it’s not just date nights
and happy moments,
it’s sitting side by side
after another negative test,
not knowing what to say…
but staying anyway.
It’s the quiet.
The weight.
The way heartbreak doesn’t just hit one of you,
it hits both.
It’s watching the person you love hurt,
and wishing you could fix it…
but all you can do is hold them through it.
Infertility changes you.
How you love.
How you hope.
How you lean on each other
when everything feels uncertain.
But it also shows you something real,
love isn’t just built in the good moments.
It’s built in the ones
that try to break you.
And somehow…
we’re still standing.
and happy moments,
it’s sitting side by side
after another negative test,
not knowing what to say…
but staying anyway.
It’s the quiet.
The weight.
The way heartbreak doesn’t just hit one of you,
it hits both.
It’s watching the person you love hurt,
and wishing you could fix it…
but all you can do is hold them through it.
Infertility changes you.
How you love.
How you hope.
How you lean on each other
when everything feels uncertain.
But it also shows you something real,
love isn’t just built in the good moments.
It’s built in the ones
that try to break you.
And somehow…
we’re still standing.