The Energy Cycle Between Man and Woman

The theory suggests that there is an energetic cycle in sexuality between men and women – and that this cycle can be consciously activated and stimulated. In this context, "energy" refers to a type of tension, charge, or excitement that is perceived differently in the body. Many people describe a feeling of warmth, tingling, or currents, or a sense of expansion. Plus and Minus A system – like the one that can be formed by a man and a woman – always tends towards a balance of energies. This means that energy flows from the place of abundance (positive pole) to the place of emptiness (negative pole). The Tantric theory considers the man's penis as the positive pole – which is quite understandable. In men, sexual desire is often ignited almost instantaneously. Men often take on the active role in lovemaking, driven by their desire. The vagina is seen as the negative, receptive pole, which receives sexual energy from the man. So far, so good. Now it gets interesting: If a man and a woman simply surrender to this opposing polarity, it leads to more and more energy flowing from the man to the woman, until the man eventually – after orgasm – feels completely drained and rolls over to the side, and the excess energy prevents the woman from falling asleep. Whole-Body Energy But it can also happen in a completely different way: the woman can draw the received energy from her pelvis and distribute it in her chest area. This is done through breathing techniques that are in harmony with the movements of the couple, and through visualization (imagining how the energy flows and unfolds). The woman then perceives the energy not only in her genitals, but as whole-body energy, with a focus in the heart area – where we generally locate our feelings. The woman then gives this excess of feminine emotional energy back to the man – through the touch of her body, the softness of her breasts, her breath, and the look in her eyes. Women give off feelings, and men are receptive to them. Even if most men would never admit it, they are actually craving it. The man can perceive and receive the deep feelings that arise in the woman during the sexual act. As a symbol of this, the man's chest area is seen as the negative, receptive pole, while the woman's breasts are seen as the positive, giving pole. If the man can now also distribute this energy throughout his body and, through breathing techniques and visualization, allow it to sink back into the pelvic area, the cycle is complete, and enriched with additional energy. More and more energy flows into the system, and the man and woman build upon each other, reaching higher and higher levels of pleasure. It's not just the purely sexual energy between the genitals that is flowing; the cycle also includes the emotional and relational aspects. A completely new quality of sexual connection becomes possible. This may sound quite complicated at first, but it can be an amazing experience if you try it. The connection with your partner becomes more intense and intimate, the attraction is more palpable, and there is a feeling of exchanging on a very intimate level. This type of physical love revitalizes, energizes, and rejuvenates the partners each time they fully embrace it. ~ Written by mysexysalad